Relationship Therapy

Yes, we warmly welcome and support people across all identities and neurotypes in their relationships. Our work is grounded in inclusive, affirming, and informed care and centres the needs of LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent clients.

These relationships can come with unique challenges and deserve support that is affirming, respectful, and informed by the broader social and cultural context you’re navigating.

Many people have felt unseen, judged, or misunderstood in therapy, especially when shaped by experiences of gender, neurodivergence, sexuality, or intersectionality. At Lavender Psychology, there’s no need to explain who you are, prove your relationship, or fit into a narrow idea of how you should connect. This is a space to be met with curiosity, care, and respect, just as you are.

At this time, we work with couples across a wide range of identities and neurotypes. While we do not currently offer therapy for non-couple relationship structures, we use the term relationship therapy to reflect our commitment to inclusive and affirming care.

We recognise that relationships exist in many forms, and not all of them fit within traditional or couple-based frameworks. Language matters, and we believe everyone deserves to see their experience reflected respectfully in the care they receive. While our current scope is focused on couples, we are committed to ongoing learning and reflection in this area.

Our hope is to continue expanding our capacity to support a wider range of relationship structures over time. We want to approach this work with care and intention, and we know that doing so takes time, reflection, and continued learning. We appreciate your understanding as we grow in this space.

We don’t currently offer family therapy or work with parent–child relationships. Our focus is on supporting adult couples through affirming, evidence-based relationship therapy.

We offer relationship therapy for people of all identities and neurotypes. Our work is grounded in Emotionally Focussed Therapy (EFT), a trauma-informed, attachment-based approach that supports emotional connection and safety. Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy may also be integrated to help process past experiences that are impacting the relationship. Whether you're seeking support with communication, trust, intimacy or navigating life’s transitions, therapy provides space to explore what’s getting in the way and work together toward something more respectful, supportive and connected.

Not at all. Relationship therapy can be helpful at any stage of a connection, whether you're feeling stuck, adjusting to change, or simply wanting to strengthen your bond. You don’t have to wait for things to fall apart. Sometimes, the most meaningful work happens when you choose to slow down and tune in before things escalate.

It’s common for people to feel unsure about starting relationship therapy, especially when things have been painful or stuck for a while. Sessions are never about taking sides or assigning blame. The focus is on creating a space where everyone involved feels heard, respected, and supported to explore what’s going on, together.

The first session is a space to begin getting to know you and to understand what’s been feeling difficult in your relationship. You’ll have time to share what matters most to you, and what you hope might feel different. There’s no pressure to have the right words or explain everything perfectly. We’ll go at your pace and start to build a shared understanding of what’s happening, and where you’d like to go from here.

Yes. Online sessions are available for relationships across Australia. Telehealth can be a helpful option if you're living regionally, juggling busy schedules, or simply prefer the comfort of your own space.

The fee for relationship therapy is $290 per 50-minute session. Some private health funds may offer a rebate depending on your level of cover.

Medicare rebates are not available for relationship therapy, as it isn’t covered under a Mental Health Treatment Plan. Sessions are billed as a private service. Some private health funds may offer a rebate depending on your level of cover. If you're unsure what your policy includes, it’s best to contact your insurer directly before your first session.

Sessions are 50 minutes and typically include both people attending relationship therapy. Early in the process, it’s often helpful to have one individual session with each person to better understand their experiences and perspectives within the relationship. Many clients attend weekly or fortnightly, depending on what feels most helpful. We’ll work together to find a rhythm that feels supportive and manageable for everyone involved.

Every relationship is different. Some attend for a short time to focus on a specific concern, while others benefit from ongoing support. We will regularly check in on how therapy is going and whether it continues to feel helpful. There is no set number of sessions. The length of therapy depends on what you are working through together, your shared goals, and what feels sustainable and meaningful over time.